Have you ever felt a deep fear of being boring. If you ever felt that you are inherently boring then you are wrong. No one is inherently boring it is just a fictitious fear that we makes for ourselves.
You may seem boring because you don't think it's inappropriate to say what's in your heart due to shyness,humiliating feelings that you think you may go through or what if there will be any contradiction in thoughts.
Instead you try to bring topics that you think might seems interesting avoiding the underlying feelings which results in lack of enthusiasm and concentration in conversations.
If you lack courage,enthusiasm and concentration to tell people how you feel than you will be regarded as a boring person.Instead, of that you should develop courage and try to tell people importance of your conversation and what you really feel. You should give more detailed image of what you really want to convey through your discussion.
Most interesting person share their views without hesitation. They say whatever is in their heart.The worldly appearances like clothes,vehicles doesn't make them interesting but how they represent their inner thoughts and ideas make them interesting.
You may be someone who enjoys his own company.Going inside your own thoughts making plans for future,generating great ideas and you may just spend more time on it than others.This may make you look like you are quiet and parted being. But that's not the case.
You may be viewing this world with a whole new different perspective that no other person can see through.You should not be worried about those but instead respect that because no one is same.Everyone has different aspect and opinion and express themselves in different ways.
Remember boring is just a fictitious fear that just appears in your way of being the most interesting person you will ever be.So avoid it and bring out the most impressive person out of yourself.
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