Anger is a feeling that makes a mouth work faster than your mind: Evan Esar
In our social life we have to face different people in different moods: excited,sad,happy and of-course angry.Each of the feeling require different way of handling.You cannot handle an angry person with an attitude that should be used for a sad person.
Always remember an angry person always says without thinking as the mouth works faster than brain of an angry person.But here are 5 ways you can use to handle angry person:
1)Remain Calm
One of the most important point to remember is to remain calm.When you cope with an angry person beware that while handling the person you don't loose your cool or otherwise the situation may worsen.So, if you feel you have had enough coping the other person anger and you are on the verge to loose your cool you should leave the place or otherwise the place may become WWE arena.
2)Find Reason Of Anger
Most people try to handle others without knowing the reason of their anger and handling people like that irritates the person more thus not reducing but increasing the anger and making the environment much hotter.You should try to know the reason so that efforts could be made in solving the problem the person is in by giving him/her suggestions.Thus helping the person getting out of anger.
3)Divert The Mind
If nothing is working try to divert the mind of the person.Try to watch movies,tell jokes,try yo do whatever you think is best to diver his/her mind from the root of anger.And if you succeeded then congrats you did your job.
4)Strategize Your Actions In Advance
Make a plan before you take some action to deal with hotheads.Think in advance what to say and what not to.Be careful of not saying something that increase the anger more.Care should be taken while you say something to an angry person.As no one knows how the person in anger will take your suggestions or actions.
5)Give Him/Her Time
If nothing works then just try to relax and give the person some time.Sometimes people just need little time alone in this busy life of ours.Try to talk with them in a calm time about the problem and their anger issues.So that effort could be made to get the person out of the problem leading him/her to anger.
Remember care and patience both are required while handling an angry person and sometimes the person in anger isn't really angry but hurt and their is a big difference in handling a hurted and an angry person.
In our social life we have to face different people in different moods: excited,sad,happy and of-course angry.Each of the feeling require different way of handling.You cannot handle an angry person with an attitude that should be used for a sad person.
Always remember an angry person always says without thinking as the mouth works faster than brain of an angry person.But here are 5 ways you can use to handle angry person:
1)Remain Calm
One of the most important point to remember is to remain calm.When you cope with an angry person beware that while handling the person you don't loose your cool or otherwise the situation may worsen.So, if you feel you have had enough coping the other person anger and you are on the verge to loose your cool you should leave the place or otherwise the place may become WWE arena.
2)Find Reason Of Anger
Most people try to handle others without knowing the reason of their anger and handling people like that irritates the person more thus not reducing but increasing the anger and making the environment much hotter.You should try to know the reason so that efforts could be made in solving the problem the person is in by giving him/her suggestions.Thus helping the person getting out of anger.
3)Divert The Mind
If nothing is working try to divert the mind of the person.Try to watch movies,tell jokes,try yo do whatever you think is best to diver his/her mind from the root of anger.And if you succeeded then congrats you did your job.
4)Strategize Your Actions In Advance
Make a plan before you take some action to deal with hotheads.Think in advance what to say and what not to.Be careful of not saying something that increase the anger more.Care should be taken while you say something to an angry person.As no one knows how the person in anger will take your suggestions or actions.
5)Give Him/Her Time
If nothing works then just try to relax and give the person some time.Sometimes people just need little time alone in this busy life of ours.Try to talk with them in a calm time about the problem and their anger issues.So that effort could be made to get the person out of the problem leading him/her to anger.
Remember care and patience both are required while handling an angry person and sometimes the person in anger isn't really angry but hurt and their is a big difference in handling a hurted and an angry person.
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